FOR THE LOVE OF GOD ... DEMOCRATS STOP IT!!!

 

Dear Democratic Party Leadership,

What the hell are you doing? Clearly there's something going that we can't see but maybe you shouldn't be dragging that sh*t out in public. 

If the Democratic Party unified and came out swinging this election would/should be a cake walk. You should be able to run ANY walking, talking, not corrupt candidate and win but here we are, publicly eating our own. ALL YOU'RE DOING IS DEMORALIZING THE BASE. 

You don't have a lot of options BTW -

1. Run Biden, back Biden fully and cross your fingers.

2. Run Harris at the top of the ticket and see if she can fend off the misogyny and racism that plague this country. She ought to be able to, she's an incredibly qualified candidate. Fingers crossed. 

3. Release the delegates from their commitments. (Get knocked off the ballot in Ohio BTW). Have a contested convention and hope it goes better than 1968. Fingers crossed. 

4. Run both Harris and Biden as if they were the primary candidate and keep them both on the ticket. 

I think number 4. is your best option BUT JUST PICK ONE. Whatever else you need to do you need to get it together. 

YOU, THE LEADERSHIP, AND NO ONE ELSE, ARE LETTING US, YOUR BASE DOWN. YOU ARE LETTING THE COUNTRY DOWN. 

WE ARE BEGGING YOU TO STOP THIS CRAP. Your constituents are getting mad at the party. Why don't you see this?

I will literally support any Democrat who's not a horror show equal to Trump.  

An Open Letter to Biden/Harris (How to break the Witches' Hammer)

 

Dear Biden/Harris campaign, What are you doing?

I suspect that Joe's debate coaches urged him not to appear too amped up, to be calm and reasoned… that didn't play out so well. To echo Jon Stewart's advice, give him all the performance enhancing drugs. He should've never been allowed to go out there hoarse. You should've told people ahead of time he had a cold. You should've blood-doped him. You should've given him adrenaline. You should've done all the things… but here we are. In the next debate you really need to take George Conway's advice and go in punching.

Why are you letting this current narrative run away from you? Joe acknowledging his age and its impact is good but what else? 

A long time ago someone figured out that we needed a built-in back- up plan, and that back-up plan is the vice president.

Here's some unsolicited advice: make sure his surrogates hit hard on the fact that Kamala Harris is the vice president, that she's competent, experienced, and already on the ticket. 

It's so disrespectful, and maybe not unexpected, that a woman as capable and with as much experience as Kamala Harris is being overlooked in the current fantasy scenarios being spun around the “ditch Biden for some unnamed perfect candidate call.” The Biden/Harris campaign needs to put Kamala Harris out there more and with the opportunity to give policy speeches and to demonstrate her fitness to lead. Have her give presidential-style speeches. Treat both candidates on the ticket as if they're running for president, because they are. Make sure the surrogates hammer home that, unlike the former Trump Administration, this administration is a team of “all the best people.” Run them all.  

To everyone else…apparently as a nation we don't understand politics. In order to govern there must be coalitions. If it's an all or nothing scenario then you get the kind of gridlock we've been seeing in Congress for years and you have Hillary defeated because you just don’t like her. She won the popular vote by-the-way. There is no perfect candidate. The opposition wants you to feel dissatisfied with the options on the table and disincentivize to vote. Let us be clear we have one of the most competent administrations in the history of the United States but more importantly, they're not a bunch of psychopaths.They don't want to turn us into a theocracy. By the way there have been theocracies in western culture, they tortured heretics, they held trials for witchcraft, and they burned women.

An open letter to Tim Ryan; Nan Whaley; Joe Biden; + the DNC:

I am a Democrat because currently their platform most closely aligns with my political and spiritual views. 

 

I offer you unsolicited advice on winning. 

 

1.     Be who you say you are. Be a person of convictions. Really. So, this probably won’t help in winning, probably the opposite, but being decent, and not a gross opportunist, will help you (and us). If you don’t know why it helps you, then please have a talk with yourself.

2.     Study the inspirational leaders of history. Study their speeches. Get a speech coach. Get a vocal coach. Work on intonation and projection. Keep it short.

3.     Have great speech writers who understand audiences. Vet the crap out of your speeches. 

4.     Take control of the narrative. There’s the saying that “there’s no such thing as bad publicity.” Probably not true for a politician but it makes the point that you need media attention. Do things. Be bold. Add the luster of star power to your appearances. Reach out to the high-profile figures. Ride a motorcycle around a county. Play a saxophone. Be the DJ at your campaign rally. Don’t be afraid to be a dork. Laugh at the haters. Laugh at yourself. Think about the timeline leading up to the election. Go on all the talk shows. Seth Meyers AND Tucker Carlson. Take (some) lessons from Pete Buttigieg. He’s pretty good at controlling a conversation. 

5.     BE BOLD. Come out forcefully for the things you believe in. Lean into them. Don’t be cautious – you’re the underdog (always) – act like it. Come out swinging. Try to avoid ad hominem attacks. Go in hard on issues of substance. Speak in clear, short, sound bites. Find your talking points and stick to them. 

6.     Don’t just speak to your base. Go out and meet and talk to those who are never going to vote for you. For these instances, have a speech writer who understands these audiences. Your efforts will pay future rewards as well as undercutting the emotional buttons your opponents will push in order to fire up their base. 

7.     It’s Bread and Circuses. It’s Bread and Circuses. It’s Bread and Circuses. 

8.     In the name of all that is holy – TAKE CONTROL OF THE F**KING NARRATIVE.

9.     Again, and with feeling – TAKE CONTROL OF THE F**KING NARRATIVE.

 

Sincerely,

A super frustrated Dem who really wants you to win. 

In praise of love and earnestness

We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
- Buddha

Without courage we cannot practice anyother virtue with consistency. We can’t be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest.
- Maya Angelou

Love cures people – both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.
- Karl A. Menninger

Cynicism is a cancer in the world.

It causes us to lose the logic of principles. It erodes our commitment to them.

It causes us to ridicule the earnest and reject sincerity.

These days one “wins” by the cutting remark, the dismissive response, the keener the ability to humiliate or shame – the greater the share of the spotlight.

Cruelty, at every level, is the norm.

Leaders who lead you to cynicism do violence to your soul.

They lead you away from love, from joy, from gratitude.

For their own purposes, they stoke cynicism and with it, its companion hate.

Like a drug, it causes us to forget love and its companion, hope.

An open letter to the Republican Leadership:

Recent years have seen the unfolding of stunning and historic events.

The American experiment, the very foundations of the American Revolution, is in the throes of what may be its most daunting challenge since the Civil War.

Arguably – it is all one struggle, one continuity of purpose that brings us to this place, a struggle for the freedom of the everyday person, not as an accessory of wealth or as a special birthright, but as a birthright for all.

I say to you that any act or practice attempting to repress the voice of “the people,” is in the most clear definition of the word, treason. Whether through gerrymandering, voting laws, or turning a blind eye to informational warfare, it is treason.

Are there not principles that are more important than short term goals? Are there not values to be prized more than political standing? than “career”? Shouldn’t the health of our republic be our first priority?

We cannot know if the 2016 election was materially altered by Russian interference or not. We didn’t have the opportunity to find out.

It is clear to any but the most naïve pundit that Mr. Trump is grateful for Mr. Putin’s support. Mr. Trump clearly fears that evidence of Russian interference undermines his “accomplishment” of winning. It is his ego that poisons his thinking and attracts him to despots who bolster his own sense of importance. He cannot see, or even care, how what feels good to him might somehow be bad for the country. If you question my conclusions go through and review ALL of his statements on Russia and Putin. Anyone can judge this for themselves absent the filter of spokesperson spin.

Let me repeat – Review Mr. Trump’s statements. All of them. The idea that replacing the word “would” with “wouldn’t” substantively alters his statements in Helsinki is absurd. It is a farce – and you – the Republican leadership must, if you’re truly patriots, do whatever it takes to act as a wall against these foreign assaults.

You must explain, in the most clear terms, to your constituents and the world, what is happening and what you are doing to protect our government and our people from Russia. You cannot sit by and do nothing. As long as you fail to defend us, as long as you fail to move against this erosion of our national principles, whatever you accomplish, whatever you “achieve,” is corrupted.

Mark Zuckerberg, Jack Dorsey, et.al. - Hey I'm talking to you!

Dear Twitter and Facebook – Dear Mark Zuckerberg – Dear Jack Dorsey -

Dear Instagram and all the social medias –

If I can see all the fake accounts, why can’t you?

On Facebook I constantly have men friend me: divorced, widowed, in the military – living far away. They have no friends and limited photos of themselves as middle-aged and smiling nice guys. Sometimes they’re wearing camo, sometimes they’re in business suits, or cargo shorts, sometimes there are pictures of roses or chocolates. Clearly they’re romantic. I suspect they want money from me so they can come visit. I report these guys for having fake accounts. It’s a 50/50 shot as to whether they will be taken down.

I see posts on FB. One recently saying that all the Russian Bots did was tell us the truth. I visited poster’s FB page. It listed, among other things, a personal webpage that linked to nothing and a series of the same kind of weird postings.

Facebook you need an option under the report button that says, “This is a suspected Bot or Troll,” and then you need to actually pay people to investigate these reports. It’s worth the money.

You also need a verification option – similar to the check for Twitter but for everyday folks. You should be able to apply for it. You need to figure out some pretty rigorous criteria to make it worthwhile.

On Twitter – YOU REALLY NEED THE “I THINK THIS IS A BOT OR TROLL” under the report this account!!! Really, really, really. I could see the bots and trolls posting about the Parkland shooting … I can see the bots swarming Trump’s account, et.al. Twitter you are literally drowning in bots and trolls. YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS OR YOU’RE GOING TO FAIL AS A COMPANY. Regularly send out notices to people for what constitutes suspicious activity. Just like in the subway, we need signs that say “See something, Say something.” We also need guidance as to what to look for – and yes it will be a nightmare for you to wade through it all. It’s going to cost real dollars. YOU HAVE TO DO THIS.

Dear all social media platforms – get your sh*t together. Stop counting your profits and protect your future earnings as well as the people you serve. Get some policies in place and set up teams to constantly watch your platforms for suspicious activities. This is a lot less big brother-y than letting faithless actors wreck public discourse and breed ill will. Be decent – give a crap about the world – DO SOMETHING.

rant ...

I do not understand people who claim to be Christians who have a preoccupation with wealth and “practicality.”

I do not understand how people who claim to believe in a savior who sacrificed his life, people who supposedly revere the martyrs of early Christianity, who say they believe in the bible – I do not understand – do they not read it? Meditate on Jesus’s words, his meaning? Do they not see the logical implications of the things he preached? Loaves and fishes, the overturning the tables, Lazarus, the eye of the needle – What do they think “love” means?

Likewise, I do not understand how anyone imagines there is some fissure between the divine and the material world. I do not understand how anyone could BE and not know it is a miracle. How can we, awake to the little that we are, not see the divine? How is it possible that we need anything more than the mindboggling wonder of just being to let us know of the divine?

How can people who call themselves Christians not believe in science? How can they possibly think that the study of everything isn’t the study of the mind of God? How do you imagine God but in that imagining limit God?

I wish I could find words to say exactly what I mean here. It’s just that there are such petty small conceptions of the divine – of being – such a preoccupation with things that would be stupid if they weren’t so dangerous. There is so much cynicism in the world. All these F**king political games – people grasping for power – as if it matters – what do they think they’re doing? So many people that seem to think that the best we can hope for is labor, not even work, and just crumbs – to imagine and then punish “enemies” – Our fantasies of the nature of things cause us to concern ourselves with cynical, stupid, dangerous things.

I'm going to try to focus on the positive. I'm in truth an optimist but sometimes I get dismayed at the cynicism I see. It seems to me it eats out people's souls and leaves them empty, grasping, and discontent.

I am grateful for the work. It keeps me going forward. It is hope enacted.

ok - enough now.

Get out the Vote Alabama

Margaret Bourke-White, Hamilton, Alabama

Dear Alabama,

You’ve been played – for generations you’ve been played.

Politicians understand that to win with you they only have to pay lip service to some one-line issues. They don’t actually have to do anything.

“They” pander to you. “They” line up your buttons and push them. What do any of them do for you?

Don’t judge a person by what they say – judge them by what they do.

Look through your history Alabama, under what leaders did the whole state – everyone regardless of economic status – do well? What leadership has benefited you as a state?

Review state and national history.

What is the economic history of Alabama? Historically and currently, what are the patterns of poverty and wealth in the state? While we’re on the topic, which states pay the most in Federal Income taxes and which states receive the most back from the Federal government?

DO YOUR HOMEWORK ALABAMA. It’s time to learn the difference between primary, secondary, and tertiary sources. You should do research around all sorts of things you want to know about: history, politicians; Jesus and his teachings; is there really a child sex ring in a Washington, DC Pizzeria, etc.

Primary sources are original sources. This would include things like declarations of succession; full unedited political speeches; the Constitution; the Bible.

BTW, in terms of the Bible, Jesus was called Rabbi (Mark 9:5, John 20:16). Rabbi means scholar or teacher, one who studies the law. If we are to pattern our lives after Jesus, then I think deep personal study is in order.

Also – FYI – making abortion illegal doesn’t make it go away. So, if you’re opposed to abortion maybe work at every turn to make unwanted pregnancies as infrequent as possible. Help single and struggling mothers care for their children. Make it less of a burden for women to have children. Be loving and supportive.

Illegal abortion means that the women who seek them will turn to unsafe measures. It means they will be forced to turn to those that would exploit them. It means that wealthy women will have access to this procedure while poor women will not.

Also - Stop supporting men who think that women are only there for their pleasure.

Stop winking at the idea that there’s a public set of values you pretend to subscribe to but we all know that you know “boys will be boys.”

I love you Alabama. I want you to do well. Please begin by electing politicians who actually do right by you and all your people. Enact these beautiful and loving principles you say you believe in. Jesus taught love.

Jesus taught love.

I beg you to turn away from cynicism, anger, bitterness – I beg you to reach out your arms to the world and embrace it all. Let go of fear – let go and let God – be the lilies of the field.
And vote your ideals, your best selves. Vote for love and inclusion.

Sutherland, TX - Trolls, Bots - This is War

The Texas Shooting – again – OMG, OMG, OMG!

Let us begin by considering the victims. So much grief, so much horror, how many times will this happen and how many things need to happen to protect us against these overt acts of violence?

Image taken from ABC News - Article linked - Texas church shooting no 'random act of violence' governor says

But adding to the horror of this event is the rapid leveraging of grief by those that would do us harm. Let me be clear, I’m not calling for a halt to a discussion of the real issues that underpin this kind of horror but there are those that would use this against us. Please let there be civil discourse, a real public dialogue – but let us be aware that into this conversation bad actors are looking for opportunities to divide us, to seed hate between us.

“'Very often, hate, anxiety, and anger drive participation with the platform,' said Frank Pasquale, a law professor at the University of Maryland, in the (Pew) report. 'Whatever behavior increases ad revenue will not only be permitted, but encouraged, excepting of course some egregious cases.'"

Quote from The Atlantic - Guys It's Time for Some Troll Theory

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Troll - a human-managed account, may or may not be who they purport to be, disseminating inflammatory and provocative content with the intent to stir anger, hate, and discontent.

Wikipedia - Troll

Russian Troll – a human-managed account engaging in disseminating inflammatory content at the direction or in the service of Russia.

Bot – Web robot, software that performs automated tasks including fetching and analyzing web content at a much higher rate than humanly possible. Many of the tasks they are used for may be highly beneficial. Bot accounts on Twitter and other social media platforms are used in disinformation and discord campaigns to identify political or social content and reply to such posts in an inflammatory or provocative manner. They are also used to post and spread false information often in a form that mimics the appearance of legitimate news sources.

Wikipedia - Bot

Trolls and Bots are being used to wage war on the American people and to turn us against one another. They count on our, Americans’, trust in media sources. We often respond to bots and trolls without questioning their legitimacy.

Trolls and Bots make posts that are meant to stoke our most emotional responses. They intentionally make outlandish, “beyond the pale” kind of statements, with the understanding that we, their unwitting targets, will attribute these statements to the “other side.” Trolls and bots and their directors count on us painting with a board brush this “other side” and holding them accountable – and building up bitterness and hate – in response to these “beyond the pale” statements.

Right now there are Trolls and Bots leveraging the Texas Church Shooting to stoke discord among Americans. Their directors want us to hate each other. They want there to be violence and they’ve worked very hard to inflame the tensions that will lead to it.

We must wise up. We must be VIGILANT and resist being manipulated by those who would do us harm. THIS IS PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE – BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE - IT IS WAR.

The Daily Beast - Jenna Abrams, Russian Troll

Washington Post - How Russian Trolls got into your Facebook feed

WE MUST PROTECT OURSELVES AND ONE ANOTHER.

Rules I made for myself to do this (and I don’t know if this is the best strategy … I am just now coming to this):

1. If I see a post that pushes my emotional buttons or that seems so outrageous …
a. Look at the profile of the poster – the name, etc. Just because they say they’re a particular person and that they live in the U.S. doesn’t mean this is true. They often claim to be someone with unassailable credentials …
b. I look at their previous posts – are these consistently inflammatory?

2. I consider their strategies in posting – do they continually deflect, shift argument midstream, or go after emotional buttons?

3. Assess if they mostly promote bad feelings or anger toward a particular group(s) (this happens on the left and right) – We tend not to question those posting from “our side.” For instance, there’s been a lot of “body shaming” of right wing women –

4. If it’s all these things I block them and try to ignore it. If I feel absolutely compelled to reply I might call out the body shaming or whatever, post #Troll and then block


I don’t know if this is the best strategy but I don’t want to be “run out” of social media and it makes me feel a bit more empowered and less helpless to have a strategy.

Hugh Hefner's Ghost ...

Ruth Orkin - An American Girl in Italy

The real story behind "An American Girl in Italy" - CNN

Hugh Hefner’s Ghost is a specter before us …

A man in silk pajamas, a bon vivant, a beautiful young woman on each arm with extras bringing up the rear, the women proportionally younger to their aging master, proof of his continuing virility. Hugh Hefner lived the life that “any man” would crave.

He was not the author of this fantasy but he certainly helped promote it, normalize it. He contributed to and popularized a fantasy of masculinity that engaged in sex free of responsibility and without concern for partners. It is a fantasy that does not distinguish between coercion, or force and consent. It simply does not matter.

“I’m automatically attracted to beautiful women — I just start kissing them, it’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything," Donald Trump in his now infamous 2005 conversation. Trump Hot Mic - NBC News

What Hefner pandered was winked at. Just good fun. Like “locker-room” talk, it didn't/doesn’t mean anything …
Except that language begets a sense of expectations about what the world is… and should be.

When I was in my 20s, I was at a small dinner held in the honor of an artist exhibiting at the gallery where I was working. It was attended by “professionals” in the field, other artists, mostly men. The guest of honor looked at me at said he could “hang coffee cups off my nipples.” Everyone at the table laughed. I didn't feel titillated or flattered. I felt humiliated and diminished in front of my peers. I still feel humiliated when I think of it.

This is a minor story. It is mild. I, and many of my friends, have much worse.

Historically speaking, for most women, there is no power to be had. Historically in the west, women of color most especially, but all women, in all or almost all “civilized” cultures, constitute one of the most repressed and abused groups.

Culture and the human/monkey mind has bred the expectation that to exploit those with less power is one’s right; a demonstration of one’s place in the hierarchy. Like wild dogs, for the human-monkey mind holding down the weaker “proves” something about strength and dominance.

It is the most monkey-minded human who flexes their “power” by imposing and inflicting on the bodies of others.

Every 98 seconds an American is sexually assaulted.
1 out of 6 women has been the victim of a rape or attempted rape.

Rainn Org. Sexual Violence Statistics

Every 9 seconds a woman in the United States is beaten.

Domestic Violence Statistics

Human trafficking, rape, etc., these are extreme examples of what we’re talking about, but be sure it is shot through at every level of our society. “A thousand tiny cuts” of taking liberties, of cultivating shame - acts which culminate in a kind of psychological prison.

Abusiveness is a transactional relationship. The monkey-mind definitely understands this -
"You are beneath me, whatever I 'give' you, is an act of generosity. It is your obligation to please me. You cannot earn anything. It is given, and you should be grateful for it. You owe me your loyalty. You owe me more loyalty than you owe yourself. If you damage my reputation by telling what I take from you, instead of what I have “given,” you have betrayed me. You will be punished. I will give you tiny tastes of approval or validation: love, kind words, professional acknowledgement, but you have never earned any of it and it will come at a terrible cost. I will remind you, every day you are near me, that I am doing you a favor, that I am so much more important than you and you owe me everything."

Harvey Weinstein is such a man.

Every single person of a status lacking power, whether a kid being bullied at school, a person of color, a woman – Every. Single. One. - has known this abuse. If you’ve ever lacked power you know what I mean. It is pervasive. For women it comes in a cultural attitude that says your body is for others. If you are young and beautiful – it is for the pleasure of others. You are not to be trusted with it. If you are not beautiful, you are to be held in contempt for your failure to please.

There is not a woman out there who cannot say “me too.” It is wrenching to know what that means, really.

Sexual Harassment, Roger Ailes - The Guardian

Hugh Hefner Dark Side - The Guardian

Did the Sexual Revolution Liberate Women - Dame Magazine

Dear Christian Politicians –

Matthias Grunewald, The Crucifixion from the Isenheim Altarpiece, c. 1515

If you insist on touting your religion as part of your political profile, if you claim your religion as any source of your legislative agenda, then be a Christian.

I think we can all agree that being a Christian means studying the words of Jesus and meditating on their meaning, internalizing his message. At the forefront of that message is Love: compassion, generosity, concern for our fellow human beings, all as expressions of LOVE.

Jesus never said, “Love only those who look like you.”
Jesus never said, “Hate those that you think hate you.”

Jesus never said, "Punish those who sin for my sake."

And Jesus actually never said, “Go forth and attain political office so you can legislate my will.”

He did say, “My Kingdom is not of this world.”

And – Mark 12:29-31
29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[a] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[b] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[c] There is no commandment greater than these.”

If you want there to be no abortions then do all that you can to relieve the conditions that lead to unwanted pregnancies. Be compassionate and forgiving and without judgment.

You should be fighting for healthcare, prison reform, immigrants, and education. You should be working to make the United States a beacon of hope for all of humanity.

Provide for the children of others, as you would have your own children provided for.

Call out hate. Do not support or look away when others proffer hate. Your ethics cannot be ethics of convenience. It is through your example that others will know you.

Have compassion for those who mourn.

You cannot legislate faithfulness. Faith can only come from freewill. It is not faith if one does not choose it.

If you are a Christian then do your religion justice, study the words of Jesus. Don’t’ imagine that it’s ok to disregard some parts of his message because they aren’t practical for “real life.” Nothing that Jesus did was very practical.

And as a conclusion, I leave you with the Woes of the Pharisees.

Bible Gateway The Woes of the Pharisees

"The woes are all woes of hypocrisy and illustrate the differences between inner and outer moral states."
Wikipedia - Plain English The Woes of the Pharisees

Matthias Grunewald, Meeting of St. Erasm and St. Maurice, c. 1520

WTF Paul Ryan?: Healthcare, George Bailey and American Greatness

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America. – Preamble to the United States Constitution

It is our patriotic duty to strive perennially toward this ideal of a more perfect Union.

Paul Ryan and other Republicans have touted the possible repeal of the ACA as a liberating event, freeing individuals from the burden of “having” to have insurance. That it is “merciful” to eliminate the ACA.

WTF?

I would argue with their definition of liberty – of freedom.

It seems to me much more liberating to be free from the fear that a health event, even somewhat minor, could disrupt the balance of the paycheck-to-paycheck existence of most Americans.

My Secret Shame - The Atlantic

Because we love anecdotal “evidence” – let me put this in personal terms – I was diagnosed with cancer in 1996. It is an ongoing condition for me. My loved ones, my family: my mother – my father – my sister – have had catastrophic illnesses - cancer. Do you know how much it costs to have cancer? Even if you have insurance. Do you know what it feels like to be perpetually terrified that you won’t be able to work or that your job will go away and you could lose your health insurance? A friend of mine recently died of Leukemia. Throughout his illness he worried that he wouldn’t be able to work. In the early 2000s I knew a man who brought his IV tree to work with him as he was being treated for a very rare form of cancer. I remember Clare who didn’t get follow up radiation for breast cancer because her insurance didn’t cover it and she couldn’t afford it, Clare died. – How to pay for staying alive should not even be a thing in the wealthiest country on the planet.

Who, with any good conscience, could argue that this kind of fear is freedom?

No one should ever have to delay treatment because they lack funds.
No one should ever be financially wiped out because they became sick.
No one should ever have to worry about how to pay for treatment as they’re fighting to stay alive.

All of those “go fund me” campaigns for families suffering through illness – WTF? How is this how we go about things?

Yes – we as a nation will have to pay for these things. No it should not be paid for on the backs of the working class, the middle class, the working poor, the elderly, the impoverished – the 80+%.


Wealth Gap - Pew Research


“Just remember this, Mr. Potter, that this rabble you're talking about, they do most of the working and paying and living and dying in this community.” – George Bailey, It’s a Wonderful Life

Our national fortune, our greatness, our standing in the world is only as strong as this 80+%. It is this majority that created the wealth that the 20% now benefit from. It is this 80+% that fight the wars, work in the factories, own the small businesses, work in the fields, wash the dishes, serve your dinner, raise the children – and buy all the things you want them to buy – and pay the majority of taxes. They are the source of your – all our - wealth and it’s not unreasonable to expect that a nation to which they have given so much should insure their health.

“Why -- here, you're all businessmen here. Don't it make them better citizens? Doesn't it make them better customers?” – George Bailey, It’s a Wonderful Life

It is not too much ask that those who have benefited the most from these labors should give back proportionally …

We need an end to political posturing. We need bipartisan leadership that puts the welfare of the people before the profits of corporations. We need to fix Healthcare not eliminate it. Populism, in its truest form, is concern for the common people. Let us be Populists then as demonstrated through action rather than rhetoric.

The Senate Health care bill isn't Populism - Washington Post

PS – money should not equal speech, it will forever shout down “we the people,” and will most often speak in the interests of itself.

George Bailey's speech to the board, It's a Wonderful Life You should read this - really.

Joe Kennedy v Paul Ryan - sorry I couldn't find a better clip of this

An unfiltered Letter to the Democratic Leadership ...

Dear Democratic Party Leadership –

Here’s some critique and some advice from a white female educated southerner who now lives in Ohio but goes home regularly. For the record I’m middle-class and, so far, a yellow-dog Democrat.

1. You need to get your sh*t together.

2. Develop real economic, educational, international and social agendas with real policies and how-tos – Invite in all the smart people to work on this. It’s not a party platform to say we’re not Trump. Trump is lifestyles of the rich and famous. People are not going to turn away from that if you don’t offer something real. Also you have to address this line of “personal responsibility” that folks like Ryan spout. There’s a fantasy that there are scores of people not taking responsibility and the rest of us are suffering for it – there are, but they’re not who they’re saying it is.

3. Develop bipartisan strategies. Identify people across the aisle you can work with. Help the Republicans moderate. Make this part of what sets you apart – educate the public on what is good government and best governing practices. (Look into this so you know what you’re talking about.) Don’t attack someone just because they’re a Republican – make it worth their while to work with you. Become the grown ups we so desperately need. A functioning government requires dialogue, compromise and coalitions. We need to move away from all or nothing.

4. Pick your candidates and establish strategies now for 2018 and 2020 – manage expectations. You screwed the pooch on this in Georgia. Georgia was actually a win because it was a fight and it got a message out but you lost this gain when you failed to manage expectations.

5. Stop eating your young. This Bernie vs. Hillary thing is absolute bullshit. Identify talent – cultivate it – push it. You're distracting from your "young" talent by all of 2016 rehash. Do understand what you did right, and what you did wrong, but not everyone needs to be at the autopsy.

6. Develop strategies and best practices for being heard on social media. Educate your field troops in how to go about it. You suck at this. You try to play Trump, et.al.’s game and it stinks. It stinks when they do it and it stinks worse when you do it. Stop the hyperbole. Stop the name-calling. Go troll hunting but don’t be a troll. Let the professionals - the Baldwins, Larry Wilmore, Robin Thede, Samantha Bee, Trevor Noah, Stephen Colbert, etc. - handle that – they’re very good at it and its funny. Everyone else - at every turn speak truth to power but do it without Bullshit. Call out racism, sexism, classism, homophobia – at every turn – but do it without bullshit.

7. Inform and persuade. Take the time to inform people as to what Populism should be, the differences between private and public and what it means to provide for the common defense – the limits of libertarianism – how bias works and how f**ked up our legal system is, etc.

8. The accusation that you’re elitists is mostly true. Those not like you, who don’t agree with you, you hold in contempt and you heap ridicule upon them. The Right and alt-right does this too and to a greater degree, that doesn’t make it good, right, or fair. Our culture is drowning in contempt. Yes – there are people with some mind-blowing views but you have to do the hard work of winning hearts and minds. Some of those ideas are soul-cringingly repugnant (white nationalism for example), but if we don’t take it on at its core, we will never “win” – (stop a moment and think about what “winning” should mean). Check your prejudices at the door – (as a white southerner with a certain accent I’ve run into this) - all of them. Figure out why folks on the other side think the things they do and speak to it. Build a coalition with the religious left. Don’t shy away from religious issues. Have a real economic strategy for areas that struggle economically. Education is part of this and not just jobs training, but the kind of education that can lead to careers. Identify the drivers of homegrown economies that can lead to economic stability in areas like the South, the Rustbelt, the Midwest, those Urban centers that are struggling – what is your plan to build the middleclass? How do you cultivate entrepreneurship and small businesses? Stop writing off “Red” states – go there – talk to people about what matters to them – F**king persuade them. Be in this for the long haul – have principles and risk losing for them – know what you’ll die on your sword for – make sure people know what these are. We are in a fight for the soul of this nation - f**king act like it.

9. Give people room to change – when a public figure yields ground let them – praise them – give them credit – when they uncynically apologize or “flop” on an important issue – support that – keep watching - but give them room to come around.

10. Manage expectations – yours and others.

11. Have a f**king vision.

For Liberals and Conservatives - a note on feeling(s)

Feelings are not truth – Feelings are not truth – Feelings are not truth – Feelings are not truth -

Acting on your feelings doesn’t make you authentic, but it can make you reckless and ill considered.

Serial killers act on their feelings, rapists, abusers, racists – all are feeling driven.

Feelings are the source of racism, misogyny, prejudice, sexism, and bias of all sorts.

Less antisocial but equally valid as an example – people with bipolar disorder must regularly sort through what is a “true” feeling and what is a product of brain chemistry –

Children, before they’ve learned self-discipline, are examples of an unexamined emotional life capable of equal parts joyful and uninhibited; and cruel and unrestrained.

Narcissists believe in the truth of their feelings.

Feelings are sometimes just intrusive thoughts that need to be ignored. YOU may not be the author of them. They may be a product of conditioning through life experience – or chemical shifts beyond your control. In the medieval period, intrusive feelings were sometimes thought to be the product of Satan or a demon.

Everyday minor biases play out so that we privilege those we FEEL comfortable with over those we FEEL less comfortable with. The system is an accumulation of these choices. It’s not always or even often a conspiracy, but most often a byproduct of people with power helping those they feel comfortable with – generally with no ill (but ill considered) intent -

Feelings are how the system gets rigged.

When you meet someone and you instantly dislike them; when you automatically choose to hire the friend as opposed to the possibly more qualified stranger; when you assume the guilt of someone without evidence but based on what you imagine about them - (how you imagine someone’s motives or intentions absent evidence) … these are feelings at work and they lead to an out of kilter system.

Good news – you don’t have to feel guilty for your feelings, … just for not examining them.

I think it’s important that we consciously decide what principles we are committed to and then as objectively as we can apply ourselves to these. It’s important to build systems that remove the potential for bias as much as possible. We must test what we do against the logic of what we say we believe.

For example – if you believe that it is an ethical imperative that we love one another – then what you say or do should follow the logic of this. Just as some feelings are a negative product of conditioning, some positive feelings must be cultivated, and we must condition ourselves to them.

If we long for a system that is fair, a world where everyone begins on equal footing, then, we really do have to examine our feelings and cultivate those that make us who we hope to be, as individuals and as a nation.

My Fellow Americans ...

Citizens -

Look at history.

Once we pledged our troth to lords, kings, emperors –

then we decided we would pledge instead ourselves to one another, that your cause would be my cause and that we would die no more for the glory of others but for those things that really matter –life, liberty, the pursuit of happiness – the benefits of freedom for all –

From many, One –

We need to remember this – to follow the logic of it – through our voices demand compromise and reason – let us see things for what they are – let us then renew our commitment to our common cause and turn away from those who play the games of division.

Let us demand reason and common purpose of our leaders – Let us protect and defend the most vulnerable. Let us answer to our better angels – let us demand the best of ourselves and hold those who are first among us to our highest ideals. Let us make war on cynicism - because it is only in the fitness of our ideals that we can achieve anything of merit.

On The Whitney Biennial Controversy

Many in the “art world” are thinking a lot about the controversy at the Whitney Biennial surrounding Dana Schutz’s painting Open Casket. Bear with me while I take my turn at it. (See below for links to other readings).

Does she have the right to make that painting and to show it? Yes. If we ever seriously start saying who does and does not own certain subjects we will be sliding down a step slope.

Should it be taken down? I don’t think so. Should it have been included to begin with? I don’t know –
I feel conflicted.
I feel my whiteness in this and I don’t want to lie to myself about what this is or how it works …

I am tempted to be silent rather than prove myself naïve or ignorant … but that seems contrary to my deepest ideals. I don’t want to be a coward.

For me, in strange ways, the controversy reinforces the mechanisms of privilege and power. The attention to Open Casket drowns out and distracts from the work of lesser-known artists who are also in the Biennial. Their biennial moment is being occluded, washed away. It grabs the media – the public eye – and moves it away from what else might be thoughtful, meaningful, or potent in the show …

It is an unfortunate side effect of people caring about things that matter.

But maybe this moment could be used as a magnifying glass to turn attention to the full roster of the show’s artists? Maybe it could be used as a megaphone so that conversations that don’t usually happen – happen? –
How do we talk about things that really matter?

Whitney Biennial 2017

This is an art show – an art show – an art show – it mediates and objectifies. Sometimes this gives us the distance or the emotional armor to approach real things – and sometimes it numbs and aestheticizes –

The original photograph gives us neither armor nor beauty.

Emmett Till’s murder is an example of the horror that grows from one person’s ability to dehumanize another person. It was a murder committed from an assumption that one human, because of the circumstances into which they are born, inherently deserves hate, violence and contempt. It is a piercing example of a kind of depravity that is unable to consider the value of human life that is somehow other than its own.

It is a symptom of a kind of social psychopathy that is still with us.

His mother’s grief and rage held up a mirror to those who would dismiss and diminish his suffering and her gapping loss.

However this moment came again to our attention, it is a reminder of something that is radically prescient. We can pray that we steel ourselves against those thoughts and feelings that tempt us away from a commitment to shared humanity but any ideology that reduces human beings to something “other” only propagates a living nightmare. Such ideologies assure future horrors.

I think a lot about the “they” some speak of – the confidence that those speaking have that “they” are evil. This capacity to believe that there is a “they” is terrifying.

It’s important to know where our empathy goes first.
Maybe the painting does us a favor of reminding us of its source – maybe.
And maybe Till’s murder still has some power to awaken in our social consciousness an understanding that more recent events have somehow failed to do - maybe. We can use all the help we can get.


Other Readings on this subject:

"On Dana Schutz's Open Casket: A Masterful Yet Imperfect Painting" by Paddy Johnson, Artfcity

"The Violence of the 2017 Whitney Biennial" by Hrag Vartanian, Hyperallergic

"Black Artists Are Calling For An Emmett Till Painting To Be Destroyed" by Jordan Danville, Fader

"Dana Schutz’s Painting of Emmett Till at Whitney Biennial Sparks Protest" by Lorena Muñoz-Alonso, Artnet

Added on March 29, 2017

"Censorship, not the Painting, Must Go" by Coco Fusco, Hyperallergic

Manufacturing Jobs (it's the economy stupid)

Image source Library of Congress - 11 year old Nannie Coleson


When pundits and politicians talk about the economy they talk about growth. “Is the economy growing?”

I’ve often wondered how something can infinitely grow.

And with a consumer-based economy, how can we infinitely consume? Isn’t there a point where I have most of what I need? Even if we go with the model of continually replacing everything we have due to changes in fashion or “upgrading,” won’t this plateau? As an economic model/goal, how is this even practical? The only way it makes sense for the economy to continually grow is for the population to continually grow. Logically there has to be a limit to this.

Jobs. Manufacturing jobs.

I shop at Target. On very rare occasions I shop at Walmart. I buy a lot of cardigans and tees. I always check prices. If something is $24 or higher, I hesitate. Sometimes I wait for it to go on sale. The things I buy are made in places like China. Things that are made in the United States I largely can’t afford. Most Americans are in a similar or worse economic state. We spend a lot of time working on the appearance of how we are doing and struggling behind the scenes. The sweaters I buy at Target are thin and cheap and only have the appearance of their more expensive cousins.

We talk about bringing manufacturing jobs back to the U.S. Somehow we’re going to out compete places like China. China is attractive to manufacturers because wages are low and the environmental regulations are less stringent. The conditions of workers in Apple’s Chinese manufacturing sites have been widely discussed. Similarly there has been media attention given to garment workers in countries like Bangladesh and India. Beijing struggles with air pollution.

China Air Pollution Woes

I own an Iphone and I buy the clothes.

Can we manufacture goods in the U.S. at costs that will make them competitive? Will we, SHOULD WE, produce the conditions that would make this possible? If we impose tariffs, will American workers be able to afford the goods they produce?

As automation becomes more prevalent, and it is inevitable that technology will continue to replace human workers, what then?

We the “99%”* are addicted to the cheap goods produced by suppressed and often slave wages. Corporations are addicted to the profits that this system feeds them.

Corporate executives make millions for the profits they are able to provide to their investors. Workers struggle. Their low wages are a very real part of this system. I’m not the first to say it, but for manufacturing to be viable in the U.S., we need to turn to the manufacture of high-end commodities with a consumer price point that can sustain a living wage. This however will require an educated and trained workforce and consequently an investment in this education. Yet education and training is increasingly out of reach.

At every level there is a call for “fiscal responsibility” as more and more of various cost burdens are shifted onto the “99%”. At every turn the profit gatherers seek to extract an extra dollar or dime.

We have seen what deregulation looks like. Study the history of the 19th and 20th centuries: child labor, pollution, killer smogs, the shirtwaist fire, Black Tuesday, etc.

I think we need paradigms, new indicators of economic health and public wellbeing.

We need, I think, to stop listening to what sounds good (and easy) and actually deal with the quality of the lives we are producing. Life is too short. We should not live only to work and struggle.


*I’m not fond of the term “99%” but I use it here to stand in for all working classes: middle, low and poverty.

Why I Oppose Donald Trump

My parents taught me to stand by my principles.

They taught me not to be ugly to people, not to call people names, to hold my temper and let reason win, to be kind.

Why I cannot support Donald Trump:

• Birther claims
• Steve Bannon/Alt. Right
- These first two I think are symptoms of the same motivation on Trump’s part.

• Trump University
• Twitter Rants
• Name calling

• Apologies are rare and thin

I find him reprehensible and an embarrassment to the nation. I think surely if there is a cause you would rally to you could find a better leader than this.

He was elected but sometimes, history has shown, the public is swayed away from its best interests.

#endgerrymandering

Too many of our citizens are shut out of our election process. It is dominated by money and gerrymandering. Too many are disenfranchised and too few of us are outraged by it.

If you’re a liberal in a “red” state or a conservative in a “blue” state – your vote doesn’t count. Often you don’t even bother voting. Only the “swing” states matter.

Frankly any “popular” vote is grossly skewed because of this.

The Electors in our Electoral College system don’t debate or confer.

We watch the Republican and Democratic conventions and we already know the outcome. It’s a coronation not a process.

We have undermined our processes for building consensus. We don’t believe in consensus – only winning.

We have become so very very cynical. – Our elections are like sporting events. On the spectator side it’s more about personality and the team you want to align yourself with. There seems to be a real desire to punish the other side. On the political side, it’s a craven approach to the game – saying what has to be said to line up support. The public understands that there’s a disconnect between what a politician says and what they really believe. We play the outrage game when it suits us.

I know I am naïve to imagine that the principles we espouse should actually mean something.

I think a lot about Venn Diagrams and how we find those points of overlap.

We need to end gerrymandering. Surely we can find a less political system for establishing our voting districts, one that protects the voices of all our citizens. We simply require the will to do it.

Are you not entertained?

I have come to believe that of all the Christian principles “Judge not” might just be second only to “Love one another.”

Rather than divide, let us reconcile. Rather than let pundits tell us what to think, let us do the real work of patriots and educate ourselves on the matters at hand. Let us let go of popularity contests and our fantasies about one another and talk about issues and reasons. Let us be faithful to our principles and to one another.

We are intoxicated on the opiate of the public drama. “Are you not entertained?” Saturday Night Live got it right in that regard. The Gladiator quote is spot on. The Flavian Amphitheater (aka: the Roman Colosseum) provided free entertainment for the Roman public, a distraction from daily hardships. Our contemporary public/political theater likewise distracts us. As if we were at a football or basketball game, we seem primarily concerned with “our side.” We hurl sound bites and trash talk our opponents and in general fail to consider the real issues at hand. As part of this we make sweeping generalizations about groups of people. We imagine who they are in the most unsavory terms. Conservatives, Liberals, intellectual elites, “white working class”, People of Color, Blacks, Hispanics … fantasies of an arch type of each in which we believe so deeply we cannot remember the individuals we personally know.

Instead of giving into the drug of public drama – let us for a moment imagine truthfully the kind of world we want to live in, personally and then in terms of our communities. What does that world look like and how does it come into being? I personally long for a society that cares more for people, that is more accepting, that is more respectful and compassionate. I long for a world in which fear is consoled and compassion is a greater virtue than profiteering.